I'm 24, never had a bf or really dated except random POF dates where like all these guys rejected me, only went to a second date with one guy and then he "wanted to be friends". After msging so many guys online and never getting replies back, and lowered my standards, going on plenty of fish on and off since I was 21, it severely damaged my self-esteem and me me go in a zone of thinking that I'm a joke and not worth dating no guy would ever date me.
I'm a little overweight (about 20 lbs) but that cannot be the huge reason, its not like I'm a very big girl. I'm Indian but mostly attracted to white guys and I've even tried dating in my race but no sucess guys don't like me their either.
What can I do, or where can I go to meet guys? Or find guys that want to date me? And how do I do it?
I've been out of college for over a year, and work in a setting where all my co-workers are married, engaged or having a baby.
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No worries, this is a common problem which fortunately has an actionable answer.
Here are some links that will help you meet guys, as well as give you some other insights. Look for my answers and check anything I give as a link in those answers:
That gives you probably far more reading than you want to do, lol. But, it should be helpful to you. Feel free to reach out if you have any questions.
Hope that helps ;)0