So there's this one guy in one of my classes that I like. I normally do class work with him and two other friends (ill call them A and B). So while we are working he whispers something to A. I just ignore them. Then B asks me if I like him while he is standing 3 feel away. I say no even though I meant yes just cause I didn't want B to know or get involved. A bit later A asks me (while the guy i like is right there) if i would go to the movies with him. I would but instead of saying that pretend to get annoyed and tell him to cut it out with the nonsense. Yesterday (this stuff happened on thursday) the guy i like seemed to be ignoring me and not talking to me, or giving short responses. I felt bad cause i like him but didn't want to let him know in front of A and B. I slipped a note in his stuff explaining but i dont think he got it. what is the best thing to do now? I want him to know how i really feel about him.
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Why are you so hesitant to have the others know you like this guy? I understand that you might feel embarrassed, but how bad do you want to date this cat?
As a guy, what I think you need to do, is the next time you see this cat, corner him, and spill it. Tell him deliberately. Slap him, the kiss him if you have to, but lay it all out, loud, to hell with anyone around you. If he is worthy of you, he'll give you an honest response. If a girl put herself out there for me, I would be her complete slave.
So what if you don't get a positive response? You're afraid of everyone pointing and laughing, right? Sure, that may happen, but from that point on, every guy will respect you. It is a VERY attractive quality to have. Of course if you can't muster up the balls to do it anywhere you see him, hell, follow him out of school, wait outside one of hiss classed, or get there earlier, or pull him into the bathroom... but tell him. Tell him soon. Sure, notes are cute and fun, but if you think he likes you too, and you tell him straight out, you'll most likely end up kissing by the end of that conversation. Honestly.
I really hope everything works out for you, Sweetheart. Please let me know if I can add anything else. I really want to help you out.
Good luck, and God bless.0
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