Before anyone says this, yes I'm aware that I'm still very young and that I have my whole life ahead of me. But even at this point it just feels as though I will never be able to find someone that truly will like me. My whole life that whenever I attempt to ask someone out she tells me no, or says yes but when you attempt to make plans with her she's always too busy. And that's not even including the ones that I don't even get the chance to ask out because I'm annoying or that I'm creepy (girls have actually used those words to describe me). I know that I may not be the most attractive looking guy out there, but it just seems like that nobody is willing to take the chance to get to know me. I'd like to think that I'm a nice guy, but given my history with relationships I'm not sure if I even am anymore. I mean the first relationship I was in I thought things were going good, but it turns out that they weren't and it ended up with her getting essentially a restraining order on me. Sorry for such a long story, but any kind of help would be much appreciated!
Is it just me or does nobody like me?
What Girls Said 1
Don't attempt to change your personality because you seem like a great guy. Maybe next time you should ask the girl what she doesn't fancy about you and if it's something small like your hair you could fix it up. Just don't try to change your personality. Don't worry, women aren't products, we don't run out. You'll find your girls someday.0
What Guys Said 1
I'm pretty sure it's going to be told for you again "You're still young you got a journey ahead of you"
But anyways, I can relate to you in a job perspective at-least no employer wants to hire me and I have no fucking clue why so I'm stuck at this minimum wage shit fest job.
I'm curious how outgoing you are as a person, are you friendly? are you needy? when you approach to someone who you have an interest for how do you go ways about it? Update your question instead of responding to me so everyone see's it.0
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