Have ever told a guy/ girl you like them?

I just realized that I am 21 and have never in my life told a guy that I like him.

I've been on dates and have accepted dates for the benefit of the doubt, but have never once told any of my crushes that I actually like him.

What about you?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • It took me a while, but once I had some self-confidence, I had no problem doing it. And I did. And I got some girlfriends because of it.

    I'll tell you what, you can practice on me. Tell me you like me. :)

    Actually, that's not a bad idea! Pretend I'm a guy you know who you think is cute, and write me a message. And I'll play devil's advocate, so you know what it'll feels like to get different responses. I would have LOVED it if a girl did that for me when I could have used it. That would have been awesome!

    Give it a shot. See how it feels. You could learn things about yourself when you start writing. I'd be honored to do that for you.

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What Guys Said 6

  • Yeah, it was through text though which wasn't a good idea... I had been going out with her for a month and thought things were going well but after I told her that she grew distant and now we don't even talk... Not sure why...

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  • Nope... because reasons. Sure wish I could though. I'm 23.

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  • I am 21 and I have never told any girl that I liked them either haha.

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  • yeah. lets just say for guys 5% of the time it works every time. lol

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  • Same here :)

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  • Nope. I'm 18 years old and I've never even had a girlfriend lol

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What Girls Said 4

  • I told a guy once I liked him. He came to my house, we chilled outside and he asked me who I liked from school. I just came out with it " I like you and you already know that. He knew I did because we flirted a lot and he liked me.
    We didn't date, found out he was a hoe just trying to get some.
    I wouldn't do it again though, too shy.

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  • Yes I have. The guy got red like a tomato and he said he had no idea; which I knew was false because I gave him many obvious signs. Telling him face to face helped me and I slowly started losing interest. Later, he was the one that would try to flirt and get my attention but I was no longer interested. Even until this day , whenever he sees me, he says hi.

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  • NO! :o :o :o

    :(

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  • Yep... worst decision ever.

    It was in middle school.

    Me: Hey Josh can I tell you something?

    Josh: Um, yeah... sure. What?

    Me: I like you. A lot. For a while now actually... I just wanted to let you know.

    Josh: *straight face*
    Um, okay. Cool.

    Me: *awkwardly smiling* Yeah.

    Josh: alright. Thanks for telling me. Bye.

    Me:

    Yes. I was a doofus.

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