Is book smart attractive?
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Smart is relative. It is sexy within reason. From my observations, there's a point for both genders where it goes from "Wow, they are so intelligence, very sexy" to "Holy shit, they are way too smart, I don't even know if we can really connect with each other". Basically it turns from a sexy smart to a intimidating smart where they no longer feel like they are even compatible. Usually it's from the insecurity of thinking "why would such a person even want to be with me?" or "they will think I'm too stupid" or "They will leave when somebody smarter than me comes along".0