I am in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend of a year, and I love him very much. I have never thought about being with anyone else, he was the only one I thought I would ever want to be with. I have always questioned whether I am straight or bi, but always with a hypothetical situation. I never had a crush on an actual girl before.
However, recently I have met a girl that is absolutely amazing and I can't stop thinking about her. I just want to kiss her and cuddle her and be with her so badly, but at the same time I love my boyfriend. I can't stop thinking about her but I can't just break up with my boyfriend and be with her because
1) I love my boyfriend and I couldn't imagine a world where we weren't together
2) I've never explored my sexuality before and I don't know if it's just a crush or I'm actually interested in girls.
3) She's kind of damaged and falls in love quickly and doesn't take relationships seriously
I'm not the kind of person who falls in love with people easily, so it took a while for me to fall in love with my boyfriend, so me saying that I love him is not something that I take lightly. I am not in love with the girl, but I feel like I could be. I don't know how to deal with this situation! I just know I don't want to break up with my boyfriend but I also really wanna explore my sexuality with her :(
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As you go through life you will have temptations, and this thing with the girl is one of them. To be blunt, leave the girl to your sexual fantasies only and stay with the one you love. Why? You mention several times you love your boyfriend and then that this girl is 'damaged'.0