Ok so... i was never popular with the girls and started online dating.
Now all of a sudden i have two girls interested in me, so I'm completely caught of guard. I never had to deal with this before and I have no idea how to choose.
I actually kind of like them both, but they are so different.
One is 3 years older than me, she's very smart, creative and kind. But she's a lot more serious, probably due to her age (25). She scares me a little because i feel like i act more sophisticated around her than i normally would be.
I'm a little bit unsure about her as well, as she already shared well... personal pictures and we haven't even met yet. But i don't know if that's because she feels really comfortable with me or if she's trying to "outdo" the other girl.
The other girl is 4 years younger. She's very kind, outgoing and less complicated. But maybe she's too young to commit to a real relationship, she still has to start college. I feel a bit more at ease with her, probably because i'm older i feel more "superior", but sometimes she feels a bit simple minded (and no that's not a bad thing, but i like things to be a bit interesting if you know what I mean).
Because it's online dating, i haven't met either of the girls yet. And both know that there's another girl interested in meeting me. (I'm honest like that!)
I promised that i'd meet both, because you know IRL things might be completely different than on a chat.
But what if both dates go great...
how do i pick, and maybe more importantly how do i tell the other girl without breaking her heart?
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Go on the dates and be honest with the girls that you are dating other women. Make sure to go on a couple of dates with them and pick the one you click more with.0