basically What makes you want to have a relationship with a girl rather than just a one night stand?
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Attraction is definitely hard not to talk about here.
The physical criteria for a relationship is much higher than for just casual sex.
Think about it. She has to be hot enough to make me dismiss all other romantic options.
So I'm not going to act like 50% of the time a guy doesn't want to be in a relationship, it's for reasons other than her just not being good-looking enough. That's just life, I guess.
Other than that, a lot of girls just don't make ideal girlfriends. Maybe they have a history. Maybe they drink to much or try to many drugs. Maybe they have too many guy friends or they're too flirty with the male crowd. Maybe they don't have any female friends. Maybe they're too open about their life or they overshare on social media (which is a big one. This will disqualify as girlfriend material SO fast).
Also, sometimes, a guy just doesn't want o be in a relationship at that point in time.
Especially if he hasn't reach the pinnacles he know he can. If he knows that in 6 months to a year, his situation will change dramatically and he'll have access to much hotter women than he ever has, why would he waste your time and his with a relationship?0