And now was in shape what would you think? I don't let girls know because I'm afraid they will judge me.
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A guy I dated for a while was in a similar boat. I mean I found out straigh away because I saw his I. d but... It just seems like a bit of a none issue. It doesn't bother me either way. Another guy I used to date was the opposite, he used to be totally ripped and when we dated was far less built - either way, what matters to any girl is the now. If they like how you look now, your lifestyle now, who you are now, etc then the rest is just... Backstory. Interesting, but a little insignificant.1