Since my girlfriend confessed , I've been crying almost every night as soon as she falls asleep , I get nauseous and rush to the bathroom to throw up often , basically I'm a mess.
I love her beyond understanding and all I want is for us to go back to normal with the passionate love and care we have each other but now my heart skips a beat every time she talks to a guy, that's never happened for years before till now.
What can I do to repair our love?
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Sorry to say that and it may sound like a cliche but once a cheater always a cheater. Think about a mirror, once it shatters you will see the damn crack all the time no matter how hard you try to fix it and stick pieces together. Trust in a love relationship is like a mirror. You will always remember and never forgive. So why do you spend time with a woman you will never forgive. Look at yourself! You cannot even show your true feelings about how hurtful you are and you prefer her sleeping. She needs to learn dealin with the mess she created. And she needs to feel bad about it. But you cannot even show your feelings. This relationship is already dysfunctional.
In fact my best girlfriend cheated on her bf and immediately told her and cries and begged so they can be together. What happened was he forgave her and they dated four more years but she was always insulted by him reminding the incident and in the end she was fed up with it and broke things off. Even if she comes to you and tells you to go back to the times before incident you will maybe forgive her or thinn you forgive her but eventually you will break up. It is better to break things off before big steps like marriage because it will even be hurtful once you learn you are not the dad of your future so called kid. In my language we say this proverb: where you make a u turn before going to ultimate end, gives you benefit and prevents you the harms to you. Good luck deciding what to do! If you need a talk to mend your broken heart i am here you can count on me.2