I know full-well that glasses can be attractive on men in a more romantic/classy sense... but for fast-paced flings/clubs/online-dating, will girls just take one look at me and then dismiss me? I am aware that the whole "GLASSES R 4 NERDS" thing is a shallow stereotype. But I am not talking about finding the love of my life, here. I'm talking about having some casual fun for once, so if I need to be shallow then I'm damn well going to be.
HOWEVER, I'm a little scared to lose the glasses in case they're actually the only thing making me look interesting to anyone at all. I say this because I'm 5'9" tall and I don't have a beard. In other words, I'll be getting dismissed by most confident club-goers on those grounds anyway. So bearing that in mind, do you think the glasses would actually become my only chance?
I know nothing about women so please be thoroughly honest. I'm a university-graduated virgin, so it's way too late to be receiving sugar-coated answers! If the answer is "you don't stand a chance with girls in those settings, full-stop" then so be it. I just need to know.
Thanks for reading my stupid question :)
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1. Do you *need* the glasses? If you can't see without them, wear them.
2. Do your glasses complement your looks? Unless you have NHS frames, you probably picked something that looks good on you. Get second and third opinions on whether you look better with or without.
Pulling isn't just about the glasses anyway, it's about the whole package so you need nice clothes, nice hair and a lot of luck. Having some fun friends with you means you can be having a good time and the girls will see you from a distance enjoying yourself, and THAT is attractive. If you have a friend who's very good at this stuff, get him to drag you up to girls as he does his thing because they invariably have a friend who they will insist on finding a guy for before they go home with your saucy mate.
PROTIP: Take them with you, with a decent case that will survive being sat on or otherwise crushed. That way you can take them off and stash them in your back pocket should the mood take you.2