I'm dealing with a guy who has big issues about it because his first and only one lasted 8 years and ended about a year ago. he really likes me, says he could fall in love with me, but he can not give me definitive answers right now. have you been in this situation? have you been no the other end? how long did it take you? (I asked another question about this last night actually) Be honest, thanks.
- it would probably take over a year, between 1-3, if I really liked the person (that I started seeing after) I would be honest but it would be hard to stay away from themVote A
- it wouldn't take me much time, probably 6-12 months and I would be okVote B
- if my first and only one ended and lasted that long it would probably take 5+ years even if i really liked the person I had begun to have feelings forVote C