I have a crush on a guy. From his body language and from how he acts in person when I'm around him it seemed like he liked me too. I've been working up the courage to tell him how I feel. I wanted to tell him in person so I asked him if he wanted to go to an event with me this Saturday. I had planned on telling him in person that day as we hung out but told me that he was busy that day. I've been tired of holding in how I feel and I don't know when I would see him again so I decided to just text it to him. I sent a short but direct text saying that I've been wanting to tell him something. I said that I liked him and I have since the day I met him. I also stated that it's ok if he doesn't like me I just wanted to let him know how I felt and I ended it with a smiley face. He hasn't responded yet and that was hours ago that I sent it. I'm sure he received the message because he texted me earlier today and he texted me yesterday as well. I'm guessing that he just doesn't want to reply and he doesn't like me? I'm feeling really sad about it. I really like him. It took me a lot of courage to tell him. I was going to just keep it to myself but I decided to be brave and just take a chance and be direct. I wanted to tell him in person but I didn't know when that would be. I didn't know when we would see each other in person again. I don't see him everyday and he said he was busy this Saturday so I didn't want to keep waiting and waiting to tell him. I wanted to get it off my chest, it was constantly on my mind and i figured that i would never know what could happen if i just kept it to myself. But now I'm wondering if I made the wrong choice. I feel sad and upset that he hasn't replied to what I said. I'm starting to think that he doesn't like me. I feel embarrassed, stupid and hurt all at the same time. I don't know what I should do. We go to the same school. I don't know if I should ask him if he received my message or not the next time I see him at school?
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Very brave ^_^ You totally rock, telling him!
As far as the text goes... he might have not checked his phone. He might just not like you. He might not be sure if he likes you or not (an excellent reason to go on a date, eh?) and not be sure what to answer. He might be stunned and unsure what to do.
If he doesn't get back to you in a day or so, I might text him one more time: "So, that text meant I'm asking you out on a date of some sort, if you can't make this Saturday another day, maybe. We can see how well we get along."0