Does their position (higher, lower or same) make a difference in your answer?
I ask because I have a crush on my manager (close in age) and we go out alone a lot outside work and sometimes with friends but we're very close. He sometimes seems like he may like me or will flirt but hasn't made a move yet. We've been working with each other for almost a year and a half (I've liked him for almost a year). Do you think it's because we work together even though we're friends who text, email, talk on a daily basis? If I didn't work there anymore, would I have a chance?
- No way, I keep work life and personal life separate50% (5)25% (3)36% (8)Vote
- Only if they have a higher position0% (0)0% (0)0% (0)Vote
- Yes if they have the same position (or equal to)10% (1)8% (1)9% (2)Vote
- Yes, regardless of their position because I still like them :)40% (4)67% (8)55% (12)Vote
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I've dated a few girls from work. It's a tough one because if it doesn't work out you can't be sure what the girl will do, I guess it's the same the other way round too- lots of men are becoming bitches these days. A few years ago there was a girl who was concerned I was too senior in the company, when she found out I wasn't she was quite forthcoming over how she felt.
You spend a lot of time with work people and with women it gives them time to see who you are and get comfortable, if you're a good guy. Sometimes they develop feelings for you.
These days I wouldn't date anyone from work, nothing is going to get in the way of my eventual career! lol0