I realise this is something that people quite often, differ in opinion on. I just deleted my ex. I deleted him after 1,5 months when I realised I wanted to completely forget him because the way it ended, ruined everything that led up to it. He rejected me and wanted to be friends ( what a joke) and I refused, saying I want to move forward and that he can't have his cake and eat it too. So we stopped talking, I bumped into him 2 weeks ago. It was fine, it was at a party and I felt no need to be around him or talk to him. Although we did briefly converse (utterly useless anyway). But last night, I realised it.. if he wanted to talk, he would have by now. It has been more than a month. He rejected me, so what gives him the right to know about my life or even remotely be a part of it? He took the decision, I am just keeping my self respect. If he hasn't messaged now then he never was going to. To have him on Facebook is useless. No I never checked his profile page or followed him on it since we both aren't active users but the occasional online status on chat and that little opening to communication that remained to exist, subconsciously gave me hope that things might not be as bad as they seem. But last night I realised, he has no right to my life. He chose not to! I don't care if he thinks its childish (I don't think it is, especially since I waited until it wasn't even important anymore to delete or not- even though it was for me and my own wellbeing) or if he thinks its harsh. Not my problem! He walked away so easily, if he has to think something then so be it. But why is it considered better to remain friends on facebook? Anyway, just curious about your own thoughts!
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Well that was a long read... it sounds like you're still upset at him good step towards completely moving on... don't dwell too much on him because 38.media.tumblr.com/.../...jkNxQv1qawlm6o1_500.gif0
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