i know its more important things in life, but it just really bothers me.. people tell me often that im cute, pretty, beautiful and girls tell me thety are jelous of my body and guys have said i have qoute "perfect swimsuit body" etc. If all this things are true why haven't i had a boyfriend yet and why dont any guy want to be my boyfriend? I seriously dont get it, i know im not ugly and im a quite good person. Im maybe ab it quite in the beginning, but i i will come around when i know i can trust people... its really depressing.. i mean either people are lying to me or its something wrong with the way i am as a person.. either way it really sucks. I dont know what to do with myself, it really gets to me, expecially when all my friend has either had a boyfriend or/and dated someone or has a boyfriend. It seems like they dont even need to try. So any advice to not let it affect me so much? With low selfesteem not getting a boyfriend or a guy to like me (more then just for sex) isn't really helping either.
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well I know i'm not the most beautiful man in the world but I am among them & I have a body to match, but to be honest I am also one of the loneliest guys too. I am surrounded by friends and etc but in the romance departnet, finding a girl that is the same as me is sooo hard. I feel your pain & I know what it's like to have that feeling of loneliness looming over you. but here's what I feel is the truth, you know that people like us are admired and everything by people but we're also hated by many more because our success & looks remind people of their inadequacies. it's hard to find someone also because we're so different, there's no point in going out with someone to just not be lonely. we should really go out and spend our time with people who make us feel alive on the inside. there's nothing wrong with you it's just that it's very hard for normal people to understand people like us because we're so different. but also the reason you feel so depressed is because of the way you look at it, you're not lonely because no one wants you you're lonely because no one is good enough for you. try to view things from a more positive point of view. you don't have a BF not because you're not interesting but because most guys are too stupid to appreciate how amazing of a person you truly are. here's a picture to help you understand. I hope this helps & feel free to inbox me if you need anything else. :)