So after I met this girl about 5-6 months ago we started having a thing. Not going to lie, I completely fell for her. I can honestly say she is my first love. But I was just a rebound and I failed to see that. After she was over her baby daddy, she threw me to the side and got with a coworker. Took time but I moved on. Now on Friday I meet this girl at a club I get her number, we text and all. I ask her out to dinner for thi Saturday she says yes. I know she is interested in me. And well the more I know about her the more Im interested. Even though we have very active conversations, she completely stops texting me after like 6 or 7. This happened on Saturday, Sunday and Monday. On Monday I said I wasn't going to text her on Tuesday and just wait till Friday . When I wake up I see she texted me saying "have a good day :)" so obviously I was all happy but just wished her a good day. Later I go on fb and I look her up to add her and see that she has a daughter. I don't know how to feel about that. I mean I don't mind.. I never had but after the last girl.. having to deal with the baby daddy and just bad experience. I'm still interested in her. And I can't wait till Saturday to see her again.. it's just.. I don't know what to think... like I'm only 22... but I have a feeling she is a good match for me from what I've gotten to know of her. Maybe I'm just thinking too much of it and should just wait till we go to dinner... what do you guys think?
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Okay. Take this advice seeing as im a 23 yr old single mom. My daughters father is crazy but that doesn't mean I see him. Let me say moms love harder and dont play games. she's been through a lot and I doubt she wants to pressure you with her daughter. Id say just ask her of the relationship with the dad yet enjoy your time. she's not going to bring her daughter in the relationship for some time. Imagine her just wanting to protect her daughter as well. she's a real person too if you come to love her, you'll come to love her daughter someday without a second thought so just enjoy the time you have with her and just see where it goes :)0