So guys like me as a friend and I've had quite few suggestions from guys to be fuck buddies. Is it just the age that most guys don't want anything serious or what's wrong with me? I know I'm not the prettiest girl and relatively ugly but not every guy is Brad Pitt either.
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Perhaps you should work on finding some female friends. Let's be real... if you are friends with all of these guys then they are only going to look at you as a friend. That is of course one of them is already holding interest in you romantically prior to friendship. & if you ever were to sleep with any of these friends then you can bet on it that they all know who you slept with regardless of that guy saying he wouldn't tell anyone. No from an outside perspective... if a guy who didn't know you saw you hanging out with all these guys, that would a turn off in the sense that it can reflect two ways on who you are as a person... You could be a girl that is just real laid back and can hang with the boys or you can be the girl that sleeps around in the group of guys...
Men want a feminine woman. That completes them in a relationship, compliments them. They say men date their mothers and women date their fathers... so by that I take that a man looks for someone that could take care of them and be the FEMALE in their life... not just another one of the guys.
I think you'd benefit from meeting some girls. You are in school no? Start to distance yourself a bit from the boys and let them see a new side of you. Embrace who you are as a woman. Men will take notice. Even the guys who only viewed you as a friends with benefits .
I hope that makes sense.0