I met this girl about 7 weeks ago. She started talking to me and showing all the signs like hair twirling, playing with hands, laughing etc. She messages me that night on Facebook. We just had small talk and then we started flirting with each other. We met up and things were going great. We talked all the time. We're both in high school by the way. I liked her previously for a while, but never spoke to her and she was showing signs then. She got a boyfriend and so I lost interest, but they broke up a while back about four months ago. I started to develop strong feelings for her and started to think I could actually get my first girlfriend (sounds so beta). She drew a picture of us together like talking and laughing. She showed all the signs. I told her how I felt at the end of the first week (probably shouldn't have done that). She said that is was cute and it made her smile so much. We hung out again twice the next week, but it started to get weird. She said she was busy with friends one time so she couldn't and one time she didn't turn up. She kept trying to talk later that day to me like nothing was wrong. I messages her asking why she didn't turn up and she said she forgot. I asked her if this was going to any further and she said she isn't ready for a relationship right now. Weeks go by she is still trying to talk to me and starts every conversation and flirting. So anyway this week we were messaging and all of a sudden she stopped replying. She didn't reply for two days. So I deleted her of Facebook, because I think she was using me for an ego boost or liked the attention. She messages me later on that day asking if she will see me tomorrow. I didn't respond. The next day we were in the same area and we kept making eye contact and she kept smiling at me. She started taking and being playful with other guys while looking at me. She kept walking by me and being loud while looking at me. What does she want from me? Should I leave it? Sorry for the long read.
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by far one of the most heartfelt questions I've read on a long time.. you seem like you know what your options are its just a matter of choosing. if you really like her i would try again. it seems like you didn't really have a real gf bf relationship. so give it another shot and try to break down whatever was holding back the relationship before.0