I deal with players all the time lol. This particular guy (to me) is a player and so I stopped talking to him, and I have been ignoring him. He has been speaking to my parents though, he does know them, but it's still weird because he'll ask about me, but it's not so obvious, but he'll say "What is Sara doing?" "Where is Sara?" etc.
It's not continuous, but he seems to be talking to my parents more and he wants to go out with me, and my parents this weekend, and he even said "I have been trying to go out with you guys for over a year now" It's like ok? Can't you get the hint then? I thought I made myself clear when I said "I am not into players" and I stopped talking to him. Guys, is that not enough? I thought that would be good enough for him to know I want nothing to do with him. So why is he trying to go out with me still? And talking to my parents? Would that give you the hint that I want nothing to do with you, if I told you that and stopped talking to you and ignored you? lol
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I don't think you realize how players work. There is no "no" or "I'm not interested in you" to them. They see sex and women as an accomplishment, so all you're doing is adding more obstacles in his path before he "conquers" you. Players don't like easy bait, they want the challenge. You're providing him that challenge. You can say "no" all you want but to him that just means you're only stalling on saying "yes".
Eventually he might get bored. Eventually. Either way you're going to have to tell your parents and him that you are specifically not wanting anything to do with him AND that he's making you feel uncomfortable. If you discuss discomfort your parents aren't going to like him and you can shut him down easy.0