I know this guy for a year. Within the years span we have been off and on. I wouldn't say we are a couple if not anything just friends with benefits with possibilities of a relationship if we would both agree to commit. Anyway, usually when we get together which is once or twice a week because we work so hard and live 50 minutes away from each other, we usually spend the whole day together to catch up and have sex. He has always insisted on me sleeping over. He wants me to spend full day and night with him. I on the other hand think it's too personal and premature to be doing these over night things. He seems so happy about the idea of playing house for a full day and I'm not so entertained with the idea. Is it me exaggerating about this? How do I tell him no sleep overs until we are serious?
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Do you want a relationship, or not?
He's asking to do relationship-y type things. Typically people would maintain a 'no sleeping over' policy as a way of driving home the point that this is NOT a relationship and not moving towards being one.
If you WANT a relationship, then do relationship-y stuff. If you don't, then decline, and stop spending so much time together 'catching up'.0