So I've been seeing this guy since July. Things have been going well. He treated me really well and we seemed to be getting along great.
He told me a couple weeks ago he wanted to start seeing me more. I took this as a good sign that things were progressing,
He even suggested we go on a few weekend trips together. We planned out this trip and he seemed excited. He said he was keen on spending the whole weekend with me.
So we planned it out. Well we were supposed to go away this weekend. But he cancelled.
He had a good reason, he said that a friend's dad had passed away. I told him I completely understand and it's not a big deal. We can reschedule for another time,
But then I noticed that he unfriended me on Facebook. I know Facebook is silly, but still. Why if things were going well did he unfriend me?
I'm having a hard time reading this guy.
A month or so ago he kind of drifted away on me. I was able to finally talk to him and his reasoning was that he was busy and stuff had come up. Okay, I can understand that. But he basically blew off our plans that previous time.
This time is a bit different, but I can't help wondering if I'm being lead on.
We hung out last weekend and everything seemed fine. So why all of a sudden is all of this happening?
I'm confused :S
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Honestly, I think this guy may already be married, and is using you as his mistress. That would explain his secretiveness, and how his attitude changes so drastically from one time to another. He wants to maintain a relationship with you, but he doesn't want his wife getting suspicious, so he's not spending TOO much time with you.
The whole situation seems sketchy. I'd suggest cutting it off with this guy. Find someone who's more authentic about who they are as a person. Nobody deserves this two-faced BS1