I'm just curious. I've had various lengths of time with my past relationships, and I just want to know what others' experience with this relationship milestone is.
- Pretty soon - within the first month or so25% (2)30% (3)28% (5)Vote
- Later - maybe a few months into it75% (6)70% (7)72% (13)Vote
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When I was a teenager, it was after the first two weeks. The girl would say it back, as well. But, that was probably because of all the chemicals flying around our brains and... other places.
Personally, I don't put a time limit on it. It depends on who it is. I also don't have such a big idea of what 'I love you' means. To me, it's just, "I like you more than a friend." It doesn't mean, "I want to have babbies and join PTA with you." I'm *IN* love with you? That has more of a ultra-romantic flare, I think. But, "I love you," I could say if I had any feelings above friendship level at all.
However, I won't say it until I have more intense feelings, probably around 6 months to a year to 2 years depending on the girl, because people take it so seriously.0