We've been dating for 3 months and we didn't have sex coz I always stopped him when he tried to take my clothes off. We were behaving like a couple on dates.
So last night he randomly got upset and said I give him blue balls and he needs to see other women. He said he needs to release his sexual energy. And then he said he sees me as a friend and we shouldn't get physical. So I said cool let's be friends. (I was hurt but I didn't wanna sleep with him as I couldn't trust him)
So its weird because we're now going to meet as friends and I'm also going to date other people. So was he selfish? Or is it my fault? Everything was so abrupt.
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Blue balls is legitimate, although breaking it off was premature, but if you're not ready, then your not ready. I'd suggest setting a rule on how long you wait to have sex, so you can 1: communicate this to him, 2: not seem like your leading him on.2