There's this guy who really likes me, and i know cause he told me and I spent the night at his place, where he cooked me dinner. We ended up having sex. but not finishing because someone came over.
Anyways, I'm kinda worried now cause he isn't really texting me. I know it sounds overdramatic but i'm kind of freaked out that he may have lost feelings for me or whatever. We spent the whole night cuddling and talking, but something inside me is scared that he realized how boring I am, or the fact that I don't date (I told him I have a huge guard up). I'm worried that he's more of the relationship type, and me telling him that may have made him decide to move on. I don't know I know I'm over thinking but is this normal?
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Because women are crazy.
You probably feel this way because there are so many stories of guys 'wam bam thank you mam'ing' women. Or, it's actually happened to you before, so your brain is telling you, "Dude. Remember what happened last time?"
Although, due to you talking about how 'boring' you are, it could be a self-esteem issue either mutually exclusive to the aforementioned or connected with the aforementioned.
It doesn't sound so abnormal to me. Though, sure, if he is a relationship type, you may have something to be worried about--which makes these thoughts all the more normal. attempting to predict potential outcomes is something the human brain loves to do. It sounds like a natural worry.
If you really like the guy, perhaps you should tell him that you'll stick around with him for awhile, closer than friends, but just not calling it 'dating'. Eventually, perhaps you'll be able to overcome this fear of dating--or, being broken up with.1