Why are some women on dating sites so sensitive to what guys say on dating sites? And I mean sensitive to the smallest shit.
For example, I've had times where I'd talk to girls for a few days to a week and then I'd ask what they like to do for fun? How school/work's going or something else that's not creepy or even hitting on them and then all of a sudden they just stop talking to you. Today I was gonna go on a date and the girl asked if we wanted to meet at 11 yesterday so we talked for a little bit. Then I eventually asked her if she uses Facebook and got no response. I then texted her today if she was still down for meeting and got no response. I'm not trying to say I'm entitled to anything but I don't know what I did wrong.
Not trying to be one of those "I'm nice why don't girls like me" types but it just doesn't make sense why some of them pull a 180 over small shit like that. It feels like I have to scrutinize and analyze every word I say because one tiny mistake could screw up my chances. I also think since it's talking online or through texting, the tone isn't conveyed and it might be taken the wrong way.
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It's always better to meet people in person. It's very likely there's a lot of guys that do the same thing or are lokey hitting on a girl or want to meet them like you have been trying to do. As a girl we get a lot of negative attention from men that come off at first as saying sweet things like "Hey how was your day" or "you're looking beautiful girl" "hey girl can I get your number" Men that want and disrespect girls for sex come off as nice guys too. Set yourself apart from the other mentally filtered guys and talk about things that actually interest you. Girls appreciate real conversations cause it shows that you value their opinion and respect their mind. You're interested in talking to them and that makes you interesting, girls you bore are going to ignore.0