A lot of times on dating sites, I'll see girls write on their profiles that theyre not looking for hookups and that they aren't a bootycall as well as mentioning how guys send them dick pics.
I think it's weird that guys do that as well as messaging them for sex right away, but it makes me wonder. Does this cause a lot of girls to put their guard up and suspect guys who really aren't looking for hookups of doing that?
For example, when I message girls on dating sites, I usually ask about them and their interests. Sometimes it does get responses but sometimes it doesn't. I don't know if they're just not attracted, but one time I asked a girl who was into metal about what bands she likes and something else and then she said you look like a pedophile. That was completely unwarranted considering I asked her a polite question. Does this mean girls like that probably think pervs or creeps are hiding behind nice conversations to get a hookup?
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Maybe it is my age group, but I haven't had a LOT of experience with perverts. One does stand out ((shudders)) but for the most part, people are what they seem. It may depend on the site as well, the paid sites are going to have a lot less perverts. Sadly I can't always tell when a guy wants just sex or to legitimately try to date, so I am constantly weeding those out. That isn't pervert though, that is male nature :)0