I've been dating a lot lately, and it seems like all women now days want the casual fling while most men dont mind settling and test driving a relationship. Why is this? Are these women just lying to seem independent? Or are roles flipping where men are now the vulnerable sex, and women play the field? Its very frustrating and exhausting for me. Someone please shed some light
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Definitely true. A lot of them are holding out for the fantasy of the perfect guy, despite not doing anything to improve themselves to hold on to him should they meet one of the few, so any other guy gets rejected while she clings to fantasies. Others have been repeatedly told how awful men are and how they don't need men, so they just don't want a relationship. Add in state financial support, and most women can live off others' money should she choose. Plus they're living out sexual freedom bachelor style, have been force fed how awful being a parent is, been coddled, duped into thinking they're princesses who deserve only the best (whether or not they've earned the best), and you get a generation of hopelessly unrealistic and immature women. Add in getting burned by players (guys they just couldn't get to commit to them, LMAO), and you also have a mistrusting, bitter group of women.
Then add in what an awful prospect a relationship is (especially marriage) for a guy (if he sits down and thinks about if for half a second) and you have a recipe for uncommitted relationships.1