my ex destroyed my heart, I don't want to go into details, but it was and still is a horrible break up, I can't seem to just get away... I started dating this guy and he is fabulous, but im so guarded and freaking out, and I feel like its holding back the potential for our relationship. How do I let this new guy in without letting all my past relationship come out and project it on to him?
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that's what exes are for !!! joke a side I always say this to people, don't go running to a new poor guy right after you beak up so horribly. its not fair. when you do that you still have feelings for the old guy so what you start doing is to compare this new guy to the old guy and even in some cases blame him for all your trouble or hold back because you still think that your ex might change and come back... big mistake. give yourself some more time before dating again. just enough to forget all about your ex. one you forget how to spell his name then your ready. good luck0