It seems like girls don't like it when they see a guy actively trying to better himself, even though they may have implied that he wasn't good enough for them the way he was.
I was overweight for the first two years of college, and now that I've lost weight and am trying to get in great shape, girls I know accuse me of being too into myself. When I was fat, no girl in my social group would consider dating me, but now that I've lost the weight and go to the gym every day, these same girls call me a narcissist and a wannabe player.
It's like they don't want me to better myself or something, like they were more comfortable when they could look down on me as this fat guy who could never get with them.
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I had and still have the same situation--I was fat too. You just gotta be like eff you if they're being negative towards you you don't gotta stay you don't need that type of negativity in your life. You should be proud that you've lost weight and keeping up with your health and if they're really your friends they would support you and NOT be shittin on you like that!
& for those people who seem to dislike you after you lost weight I had the same problem a lot of my guy friends either started hit on me but the guys who were actually really close to me or had feelings for me kinda hated me afterwards I don't know why but they just stopped talking to me so I feel your pain there1