The guy I've been dating for almost a month now seems like he's really nice and caring, and he seems to like me a good amount, but I can't tell how much of his sweetness is honest and how much is just an effort to get me to sleep with him. I mean don't get me wrong, I would love for him to be my first, but I'm not quite ready for that yet. I would rather make sure that he cares more for me than he does just getting some action first. I don't want to be too cynical about him though, since that would be jerkish, but I also don't want to be too gullible either. So what's a good median between the two?
How cynical should you be at the beginnings of a relationship?
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Never fall into the trap where you feel you have to give a guy sex if you don't want to loose him. Guys are sexually ready much sooner then girls. Have sex when u are ready. Trust me there's lots of guys on this planet he might be your first but definitely not your last! There's so much more to a relationship then sex. Have fun, have a picnic, see a movie, go to a concert get to know the guy and see if he's really what u want. If he introduces you to his parents and family and involve you in family gatherings he's into you he cares. How long have you been dating? How old is he?0
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