I just love how girls (in general) act like they know what to look for in a guy, but then you find them crying in a corner angrily claiming that "all men are the same". I've heard girls say that "all they want is a guy who'll treat her well and care for her", but when that guy appears in front of them, they basically despise them.
I mean, they are all intelligent and mature and all that, but when shit hits the fan, they won't recognize a good guy (not nice guy) even if he had a huge billboard behind him pointing precisely that. They always go for the one with the most confidence, even if it's his only good quality. They always complain about men being shallow, while they reject a good guy just because he isn't as confident as a lion. Please, for the love of whatever you believe in, learn to control your instincts! I've seen lots and lots of men rejecting hot women because they were basically bitches, but a girl NEVER rejects a confident idiot.
I'm not saying I'm entitled to a girlfriend, life doesn't owe me anything, but goddammit! I freaking hate when you act all confident of your maturity, but your actions absolutely contradict your values. This just comes to show that "everyone has a plan, until they get hit in the face".
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This girl has rejected quite a few confident idiots. I don't blame all guys for the acts of a few asshole I've dated. I also don't curl up and cry and think there will never be another guy who wants me, haha, never! But yes I have cried over being treated poorly, but it's not like I knew that he was going to be a jerk. Confident or not, if he's an asshole he's out the door asap! But it still doesn't mean I wasn't hurt by his actions, and if I need a good cry then I'll have one thank you. Thing is NOBODY is perfect and sometimes on this ride we call life things get bumpy and we have a period of time to adjust. Instead of bitching why not have empathy and consider there's more going on in a girl's head than just 'a guy'.0