I just am bored so I'd like to ask interesting questions "interesting" haha.
Is it OK For a 14 year old to date a 20 year old?
What Guys Said 18
You are in love, so you only wanted to hear that it is okay but actually it's not.5
It's not ok, no. Not ok at all...7
No in fact it's illegal4
do what you like :)1
No it's not. The only thing dodgier is the 20 year old dating the 14 year old.2
that's illegal basically0
What you do with your life is your business, and nobody has the right to judge you for it.1
if she 14 im 14 fam1
that's just wrong.0
Well, you know any guy age 20 wants date 14 who is underage of consent he can get in trouble0
A 20-year-old shouldn't be dating anyone under the age of 17 in my opinion.2
14 will get chat 20 in the federal pen1
It's Illegal so seems pretty wrong0
Well there was a teacher here in Texas. She was 38 and the boy she was dating and having sex with was 13. She got caught with him twice. She got caught by authorities. Went to prison 7 years. She was pregnant with their first child. They ended up having a 2nd child. Updated she 43 he's 20. It's wrong in many ways0
I couldn't do it if I was age 20 again. What common ground would we have besides sexual attraction?0
When the dick is up, don't care the age It just pumps your fuckin horny ass you have. I wouldn't give even a shit about that you are 14.2
What Girls Said 21
It's not okay at all. A 14 year old brain is not as developed as a 20 year old brain. Teenagers cannot fully understand the consequences of their actions and they cannot understand concepts like morality and the outcomes that come with having a relationship with a 20 year old adult. Also the emotional, mental and lastly physical developments that occur between 14 and 20 are huge.
A 20 year old who chases a 14 year old is usually a predator who wants to manipulate a child.4
Abso-fucking-lutely NOT. Any 20 year old who is even interested in a 14 year old is nothing but trouble.6
No, I don't think so.
Back in my 14 year old days I thought, so what, I'm mature, I don't care.
Now I'm older, and I'm actually the age I was crushing on, I see how grim it must have been. It's an age where you think you are more mature than you are, but really, you aren't. You have a lot more growing to do. And that's not me being agist or whatever I've been through my fair share of shit, but 14 just is a bit too young. Date you're own age and realise what relationships can be like (good and bad) and progress from there.0
I'd love to say it's fine but if my younger sister walked in and told me she was dating a twenty year old I don't think I would be particularly comfortable with it, that may just be me and my personal feelings especially having a sister that young, I think when you get to legal age in the UK 16 date whoever the hell you want when you want, but before then I don't know why but it feels a tad odd to me, but then again this may just be because of having a younger sister who I wouldn't want to walk in an announce something like that.0
I'm 19, my guy is 30.
That said, 14 is a pretty young age to hang with a 20 YO.
!. Do your folks know?
2. I hope you're not having ANY kind of sex.
He could get life in prison for just touching you.
Protect you guy.
No it not ok for a child to date. Much less an adult man.. Smh0
No. That's not cool. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind age gaps, but a 20 year old guy is basically at his prime sexual peak. Not a good situation to be involved with a 14 year old.0
No it's not ok! I'm 14 and I know that is wrong! I don't think you understand what love is at 14... I don't really understand it so it's clearly not "love." It would be more like something to show off about at school I suppose saying oh I've got a 20 year old boyfriend... No, I think it would be wrong and even worse if they did anything together... It would classify as rape in England if they did anything physical. Very "interesting!" question :)0
It's illegal for a teenager to date someone 18+0
Age is a number, but 14 is reaaaaally young. I think 16 would be okay, but 14... just no.1
No, that guy is a loser and predator.1
No. No. And more No.0
there is a boy in my class who is dating a college student... he's in 9th grade I don't know why the girl wants to go out with him...0
No, it's not ok.0
It's illegal... but I'm not going to say that it's right or wrong.0
Sorry but, 14 is just wrong... what 20 year old life is this person leading to want to date a child?0
No just no...3
well if you guys were to have sex it would be illegal and he can go to jail for statutory rape because he is over the legal age of consent and you're below it. Besides, I doubt any state has 14 as the legal age of consent I think it's 16 in most states and could be even higher in a few states.1
No it is not okay.3
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