I'm not exactly talking about men who are nice, I'm talking about who go on constant rants about how "it's hard finding a girl who likes a nice guy like me". I never understand why they say they want to be loved but they envy and obsess over players and pick-up artists. If they truly wanted love, wouldn't they look up to happily married men and guys in successful healthy relationships, not men who manipulate/use women for sex? Do nice guys really want a relationship of is that a lie to make themselves look better?
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girls wanting bad boys is a cliché. Similarly, boys wanting many girls is a also a cliché. Both are only partially true.
its really a case by case thing. Even then it's different at different times. After my divorce, I was with a different woman every month. thenni realized that's not what I want. I stopped dating all together and gave myself time to heal. Now I'm with a sweet lady, whom I love. I get looks from women. I know if I want to I can have several women, but I wouldn't dream of cheating on her. I have something very special with her and I'm not going to risk it.1