hello, i'm 19 years old and never had a girlfriend, i'm too romantic i guess? my kind of date is just me and the girl i love, in my bed at Christmas time, looking at the stars and the snow outside and just cuddling... that's too romantic isn't it?
So i met this girl on badoo (dating app) she likes good musique, sport and video games, i've been spoking with her and got to know her hobies, what she was doing later and since she was asking me what i was doing when i didn't start another conversation i guess it was because she was interested a bit, so i got really happy, i was more happy than ever at my job. Before i got to work (i work at night) i told her i had to go to work and i'd talk to her later with a smileyface, she said *kisses, see you tomorow xxxx :)* when i saw this, you can tell i was REALLY happy. but then the next day, i asked her what she was doing after we spoek abit and she said she was bored and a guy cancelled the date few minutes before. I said i was sorry and that wasn't nice of him, then i invited her to go take a cofee and she said now? haha? i said no haha, when are you free? she said she didn't know so i asked her what about tomorow? she said she can't so i said *well i guess you're not interested, you seem like a really nice person with a lot of good qualities that i would have liked to discover, i can already tell that you are really nice and sweet, you don't care about people religion skin color or anything :) she said it wasn't because she wasn't interested but because she wanted to do something today... HOW COULD I KNOW? so i said oh okay, well i would have invited you today to a starbucks but i trought you wanted some time for yourself because of that guy. she didn't reply for a few hours then replied saying she forgot to press send on the message she wrote me. then she went to bed and said good night xxx. (she never message me first by the way, even tho she's always online on Badoo)
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In your defense, if I was talking to a guy and he said all of those things to me, I would assume he wasn't interested either. Especially if they brought up the fact that they were going to go on a date with somebody else. And about what the anonymous person said about her ignoring you if she wasn't interested, that really depends on the person. I carry on several online conversations with guys I'm not interested in, because I just try to be nice to people. I don't think you jumped down her throat or anything, but you may have come off as clingy, but there's always room for trial and error. Plus you're nineteen, you'll have plenty more opportunities to talk to other girls if it doesn't work out with this one.1