I have a coffee date tomorrow at 1pm. I haven't heard from this guy in 2 days (since we scheduled the date). Should I text him tonight or tomorrow morning to see if its still on? Or should I wait for him to confirm? I just hope he didn't forget.
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Dating aka as 'testing' is for 'outing the shitheads' You put the guy through their paces to see his metal.
You can confirm or not, it is up to you. But by not confirming, if he fails to show up, that is a good indicator of his character. If he fails to apologize or give an excuse for standing you up, that is the final nail in the coffin. The shithead is outed and you don't waste any more time on him.
It is also an indicator of how interested he is in you if he comes through without constant prodding and reminding. If he is into you, he should have you on his mind and be chomping at the bit for the date.0