I've started dating this guy and we're both 22. He's had lots of girls before me but I've only ever really made out with one guy ever when I was really drunk.
Anyway, everything seems to be going well so far and he seems to like me a lot and calls me beautiful etc .
But at the end of the date he walked me back home and I was being really awkward and couldn't make proper eye contact etc . We go to hug and he goes 'I'm just gonna try this' and kisses me. He kinda just left his lips on mine for a few seconds and I wasn't really sure what I was supposed to do and if it was awkward. He goes to leave so I'm like can I have a proper hug and when we pulled away he kissed me again the same and then left.
I'm worried that since I was so giggly and nervous and awkward that he's gonna know that I'm inexperienced and start not liking me lol. Obviously he'll think its weird cos at 22 he would expect me to have had more experience than I have.
This story probably comes across as verbal diarea but I guess I a just trying to order my thoughts as much as get some opinions. I'm worried that when we start to make out and stuff I won't know what to do and he'll think I'm shit. And he's the first guy I've really really liked who likes me back.
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1. You're thinking way too much. Less thinking, more doing. Trust me, I've had this problem before as well. Thinking too hard about stuff like this kind of shuts down your natural instincts. The stuff that should come naturally, like kissing, ends up not coming at all because you're prohibiting it from happening. Just try to clear your mind and let things unfold naturally.
2. Talk to him about it. Explain your situation, about how you're a bit nervous and inexperienced. He'll find your honesty endearing, and I'm sure he won't mind at all.
3. Making out isn't rocket science. Just follow his lead, and maybe ask him for some tips in between kisses. Just don't shove your tongue down his throat and you should be ok.
4. You even said yourself that he likes you back. Why are you doubting yourself so much? Just go with the flow and trust him.0