My bf basically called me fat last night. He has given hints before. Like when I told him to take the garbage out when he leaves he told me why don't u walk it down instead. Then yesterday we got into an argument and he's like we'll better run to your parents house then. Then I asked if he was calling me fat and he didn't say anything...
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I find that if you are a bit overweight right now, he is staying with you and loving you unconditionally. He may have seen you thinner before, I don't know, and with seeing another side to you that he may want to disappear, dear, he is throwing helpful hints without trying to go down a rough road which now apparently has started with War of the Roses.
Perhaps he is feeling a bit intimidated in Divulging More of this battle of the bulge. He isn't exactly going about it the Right way, but without sitting you down and having a face to face open convo with what he is feeling, this could go down a beaten path.
Open lines of communication is one of the most important factors in any new or old relationship. Without it, a relationship could go dead in tree water.
Sit him down and have a serious soul mate talk so you both can kiss and make up and come to some sort of compromise. If you know you are either trying to lose the pounds or Intend to, then tell him so you can put this to bed and not lock horns over this.
He isn't trying to hurt you, but help you, sweetie. And with what he has let loose from his own two lips, this would give me a huge Incentive to not be Insulted, but more motivated to please yourself, your man and stay like two birds of a feather who stick together, being able to tell one another Anything no matter what kind of a rotten egg it seems to be.
Good luck. xx0