So I am 22, and met a really nice girl on an online dating site, two weeks ago today, I have had 3 dates with her, then we went on our universities Thanksgiving break on Tuesday after having lunch. Every day since I have met her, we have texted, often in the morning, and at night. She does initiate texts as much or slightly more than me, and responds quickly. I know she told her Mom about me because I guess they looked up those astrology types/matching (Not something I am into personally) and I guess we are a match haha. Anyway, I have told her she is beautiful, I think she's special, etc, so she knows exactly how I feel, and she always tells me she really likes spending time with me. So we have kept in touch a lot for two people who met online and have known each other two weeks only, its seems pretty close. But today I asked her "When do I get to see you again?" over text, and she quickly replied "Maybe this week. Its gonna be a crazy week. I have lots of projects due and a concert." I will say she did mention having a lot of work due after the break last week. Maybe I am just over thinking here, but did she lose interest? I mean she is always asking how my day is going, she even sent me a good morning message yesterday, she does appear to be a busy girl, but I really like her and would be pretty down if she changed her mind. She also said texted me twenty minutes after the conversation ended "maybe we can be study buddies", is that being friendzoned or her doing her best to fit me in?
SORRY if I sound insecure, or whatever you may think, I am actually just a confused 22 year old guy really inexperienced with girls.
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Relax! She went out with you, she is still texting you etc, sounds like she wants to date you. She is probably genuinely busy as many people are, it's nothing to worry about. :) regarding the study buddy comment, that really doesn't sound like being friendzoned. Friendzoned would be more like If you asked her out to the cinema or something and she invited her friends along to join you.
I think you need to relax a little, take things slow and don't over analyse. You say you're inexperienced with girls that's fine don't feel embarrassed, she obviously likes you and you are prob similar people as you met online. Just chill play it cool and see how it goes, don't bombard her with texts questions etc cos you might scare her off, equally don't completely ignore her, a happy medium. It can be hard in the early stages of dating when the other person is busy... But patience and you'll get there :) Goodluck1