He was talking about going abroad with me and to a festival next summer and making loads of other plans for us to hang out. Do you think that this means he is jumping into things too quickly/getting too far ahead of himself or that he just really likes me?
I wasn't sue whether it meant he just wants any girl to do stuff with, cos I don't know him *that* well yet.
I don't know whether I should just go along with it or whether I am right in being catious. I really like him a lot! But I have the sense to know that there are a lot of factors that could cause a relationship not to work out
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I do the same thing. I'm not a stalker and I don't do any other weird shit. I just like being in the moment. Plus making "plans" helps give me an idea of what kind of stuff you're into. If I make plans for skydiving and you say you're not down that obviously tells me you're less of a thrill-seeker type... so then I have to tone things down a little bit and find other options.
So, that's all it is really. You can be cautious all you want but that won't help you in the end. There are plenty of detached, aloof guys that are sociopaths and killers... so why are you drawing this connection? There really isn't even a correlation.
My suggestion is to just see where it goes. If he starts acting weird and possessive then OK, now you know. Stop seeing him. But for all you know he could be this sweet guy. If you're worried about moving too fast then don't have sex with him. Plain and simple.0