So here's the situation, I've known this girl for about 6 months and through that time I've become attracted to her which eventually led me to asking her out on a date successfully
The date felt average, no awkward pauses but no exact 'spark', important part is that I still really like her and date ended on a hug
Now I've asked her out on a second date, which we can't do for like a month since she goes overseas and she replies with a "Yeah Maybe :)"
lol I don't like this reply its like yes and maybe and smiley and feels like something sweet and salty at the same time
and I have to confirm the date when she comes back
and now you should know I like being straightforward If someone doesn't like something they should just tell me rather than hand me a teddy bear and poke me slowly
So I'm planning on being straightforward at the end of the date and telling her I like her and she is amazing but I want to ask her if the feeling is mutual.
Girls and Guys, please give me some advice I am pretty inexperienced when it comes to dating and relationships honestly and loads of thanks in advanced!
Most Helpful Girl
The fact that she added a smiley face could mean she's interested but wants to play it cool. Obviously the worst-case scenario is that she's not into you and is just being vague/polite - let's hope that's not the case.
Asking her point-blank if she likes you could be the only way to find out her real feelings, but wait and see how the second date goes before asking. You seem to really like her, so why not go in for a kiss at the end of the night? If that's too forward for you, tell her you can't stop wanting to kiss her and see how she reacts. If she smiles/blushes and seems flattered, you're good. If she seems nervous or awkward and doesn't really respond, you'll have your answer. And if she has a great poker face and you can't read her at all, that's your chance to ask how she feels about you. Good luck!1
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