My bf and I have been dating for a little over a year. We don't have sex as much anymore because he's not in the mood or just tired. Lately he has just been being mean to me. He let's me check his phone whenever which makes me think he isn't cheating. Also he Is not as loving anymore. Could he maybe be interested in someone else or cheating on me? We live together so we are with eachother every night.
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With being as wise as I am, and with it not having to be etched in stone here, dear, with his problem child pattern of behaving the way he does, you both sharing a nest under the same roof, it's Obvious he is in what I call A----------Romance Rut.
With this I simply mean, you have been two birds of a feather who have stuck together for 'A little over a year,' and it's starting to get him antsy, not in the mood for sex, and You not feeling that 'He is not as loving anymore.' These are sure signs that something is not koshore in Denmark and that your own relationship is going down a beaten path, leading to War of the Roses eventually... he may want out, not want to be hooked at the hip with you, may want to live alone or just be this free bird.
No, I don't think he has the Raised Red flags of being a cheat sheet, but I do seee the serious signals of a guy who is Not happy in his haven. There is definitely Trouble in Paradise and if something is not talked out, done to compromise or even a decision is made here, this cozy couple set up Could fly south before Christmas.
Sit him down and face him Down with what I have just told you. The writing is on the wall and will only get Bigger until you both run out of space.
Good luck. xx0
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