As the question implies, we've gone on about 5 dates.. so not even official yet. but she had a big argument with her friends. now they aren't talking to her. what should i do? i don't want to become a shoulder to cry on and be put in the freindzone. but i'm not a mean person either. so what should i do or say? Or do I just ignore it and never bring up the topic..
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Being you are just in the 'Date mate' Not 'Official' stage of the game, sweetie, keep it lite and sweet with her about something that she may not want to discuss with you, talk about and even if she Does-----Become a shoulder to cry on. Unless she approaches and broaches the sore subject, continue nursing and nurturing your own notch on your end. Bringing it up when she may feel you are crossing the line at this time, may end up putting yourself as monkey in the middle of just getting involved when Not asked.
And of course, if she should ask for your opinion, your advice, you could merely say so there isn't any locking horns on your part at this point in time, that friends who fight, if true ones, will be friends till the end and if not, are just fair weather friends and she should move on from them if that is the case in a nutshell.
Good luck. xx0