What do I do if I see that my crush has a un healthy relationship and keeps using me for help?
Most Helpful Girl
Well you have two options:
1- You can stop helping her, because you obviously have two different expectations from each other. (But contrarily to what the guys are telling you, I don't think it makes you a bitch, you're an awesome person and she'd be lucky to have you).
2- You can keep being her confident, show her you're an amazing guy, and little by little she might realize she's better off with you than her boyfriend. BUT, if you want to keep on helping her, you have to set some limits. If she needs to talk and you're available, help her. But if she's asking for more than you can comfortably give, set your boundaries. That's the only way she'll respect you. Show her you're a nice guy, but not a pushover. Those are the guys we dream to be with.0