I've been seeing a guy for about three months. We have different schedules however and lately we have only been seeing eachother once a week at most because of it. The first two months Jace texted me pretty much every day, he always beat me to it, and we could text for hours once we started.
I met his family, friends and colleagues pretty early. He's been talking about me with them and his boss, even showing pictures of me lol. He's the first person I think of when I wake up and the last when I fall asleep. We aren't in a relationship, he wants me to spend Christmas with him though.
The thing is that it's been two weeks since we last saw eachother and we don't text as much as we used to. I miss him like crazy, which I've told him and he told me he misses me too.
Nowadays we pretty much take turns on who texts first, and sometimes when I do he seems really distant so I always cut it short. I hate texting first because I always feel like I'm disturbing him. But then whenever we see eachother we have the best time; he is showering me with compliments, we tease, laugh a lot, kiss a lot and so on. I'm still a bit worried about the texting since it's (unfortunately) a big part of it, or us.
Why is he being distant? Or am I reading too much into it?
I think the whole thing about us not being in a relationship yet is making me uncertain about how he feels, even though he already told me he wants a relationship and that he's never felt this way before even though he was in a four year long relationship with his ex.
What do you think?
I've also been thinking of maybe spicing things up, any ideas on how to do it?
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Hmm, well, as a guy I can give you my experience in texting a lot. A little backstory as it is related to my advice. I moved semi-recently, and where I used to live, I like a girl a lot. I found out just as I was moving she really really liked me too, and for the past half year or so, we have talked almost every day. But recently, I haven't felt like texting or talking to her and when I decided I liked a girl at my new area, my feelings may have waned a bit, not sure. So, this guy you like and stuff, you two may just not see each other often enough and texting has become stale for him, possibly. Would it hurt to ask him if he is tired of texting and if he just wants to see you more often? I personally enjoy talking to a person face to face more than talking or texting on a phone. I hope this helped0
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