i haven't been through anything like this personally, where a girl dumped me because of my job, or anything like that. but i see from time to time where women say that they want a man with a good job (amongst other things)! so im wondering, wether if its before you start dating someone, or before you decide to get serious or not, how much do you look into this?
personally, i love if a woman is, or wants to be self employed and independent, but thats because i also hope to be some day and i honestly think most jobs are just for stupid people that anybody can do. but if she's not self employed, i really couldnt care less if she's a waitress or a doctor. i obviously want a smart girl, but i dont think that doctor = smart and waitress = stupid. so could you people explain what your defenition of 'i want somebody with a good job' is and how much it really matters to you?
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Same for me. As long as he's not bumming all my money, I don't care whether he works at NASA or the sewage treatment plant. Well, if he works at the sewage treatment plant, he better be good at taking showers regularly.:) But I've had a guy bum literally a fourth of my paycheck taking him out, and tell me that I wasn't doing enough for him. I also mention that I was a student with a part time job, and he had a full time salary position, and only took me to dinner four times in two years... So that wasn't ok. Just be self sufficient, don't send me into debt, don't come home smelling like poo, and we're good!0