Will try to make this short. We met almost a year ago at our old place of work. A few months went by and we started working more closely together. We started flirting, I started to like him. Seemed as though it was mutual. I though he would ask me out on his last day but he didn't. My other co workers thought he had a girlfriend so I let that idea go. I got a new job and found out they needed people. My co worker said I should tell him because he was looking. So I did. He asked me to go grab a bite with him. I thought it was just friendly but he got all nervous about it. He wasn't able to pay for both of us and apologized several times. I didn't care. The night was nice but kind of awkward. He's very shy. A few days went by and I asked him to come hang out with me. He took forever to confirm with me that he would come and he finally did the night before. It was nice and he was trying to impress me the whole time. Other guys were flirting with me and he started to get territorial. He kept asking what I was doing the rest of the weekend or later that day. But never set anything up. It took him a little while but he finally asked if if like to go to lunch. We went again it was nice. I really liked him. Then he left in a hurry. We texted later and then later on that week I told him that I had always had a crush on him that I had been confused because I thought he had a girlfriend but I would really like to see him again. He never responded back. I was so confused by this. He really seemed to like me. He would give me these hugs like he never wanted to let me go almost lift me off the ground. We have so much in common and I always felt so comfortable and happy with him. We would make each other laugh. He remembers so many things about me. The way he would look at me like I was the only person in the world for him. I'm so thrown off. That last message I sent was now 3 weeks ago.
I thought it was going somewhere then he just stopped talking to me. I feel like I wasted time and effort here!?
This past weekend I sent him an email asking what happened and if he just wasn't interested in Me. I told him I thought we could at least be friends if nothing else. Still haven't heard from him. I know he's struggling to find stable work but it's just weird that he wouldn't say anything after what seemed to be something good starting off.
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He moved on. You might as well do that too.0
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