My personal opinion is cheating is cheating, whether it was premeditated or not. What I do not understand is why it is considered to be worse when a girl does it? I mean, if a guy cheats it hurts the girl just as much as when the girl cheats on a guy. Please share you opinion on whether you agree that it is worse when a girl cheats or not.
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Look up "purity myth" and it will answer a lot of your questions in regards double standards pertained to women.
You will find that society will say that if a woman does something, it's a lot worse compared to a man. Take smoking, for example. Smoking is bad regardless of gender, yet a smoker female is often viewed as tacky and many will try to attribute it to childbearing, yet the talking down is done on childless women (if she was pregnant and smoking, then obviously the condemnation is well deserved).
"A lady shouldn't x" is a very common phrase and you'll find some guys on here say it every now and then. Women shouldn't swear, fart, drink, have premarital sex and so on.
A number of said things shouldn't be done, because they're shitty things to do irrespective of gender. People need to stop perpetuating this purity bullshit and leave women alone.
If a woman chooses to do something bad, she should be told not to do it because it's a shitty thing to do, not because she has a vagina.2