I read lots of statements on here from girls saying they go for the guy with the nice personality, makes them laugh, has a big heart etc... Well despite being a bit nervy at times I would like to think I have all those qualities, but no girl ever lets me get that far so she can begin to see those qualities, so on that basis I can only assume that despite saying she goes for guys like that, they omit to mention that looks come before all those things, but doesn't say it because they want to look shallow.
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Looks matter. How much they matter depends on the person. If someone isn't attracted to you, there's nothing they can do, and most likely nothing you can do either. Attraction can't be forced. It can build up over time, sure, but most people are too impatient for that, and don't want to feel like they're settling.1