November 2013 I was going through a very dark time of my life , I had not long lost my father I was depressed. I joined a dating site looking for someone / friendship. I got chatting to a guy he seemed :) lovely , mad me laugh I felt happy. We chat for a few months everyday we sent each other pictures of our selfs he made me feel so attractive and sexy. I noticed in one of his pictures there were lots of cushions and for two guys who live together I felt this was strange , as he said he lived with his brother. I ask him straight out ! Did he have a gf? He said no !! I asked again and tricked him by saying I wouldn't mind? He then admitted it that he had a gf and daughter , I was gutted ! I kept away but he still messaged me. I know this is wrong but I enjoyed the attention he was giving me he made me feel good. 4 months after chatting everyday etc we decided to meet in person , he drove for over 2 hours to me, we met chatted then kissed , it was so nice it felt right even tho it wasn't. We started meeting up every once a month if he could. Around August this year I started to fall for him , we would argue and this was because I couldn't tell him I loved him. He says he cares for me so much and can't let me go or keep away from me. We are so alike it scares me ! The sex is amazing we share everything even are darkest secrets and we both share the same type of up bringing etc. Even when I've been so frustrated and I've told him to F off and keep away and I've called him some means things? And o threatened to tell his gf about us ! He says he still wants me around and forgives me and if I told his gf he would still like me ! . I would never do that to him but I felt upset to no she is pregnant with there second child. I've tried to end it but it's so hard he says he doesn't want to lose me and still wants to keep things going. We can't let go of each other we are attached to each other !! I don't want him to leave his gf I wouldn't want that but I can'
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It's a messy situation and I feel so sorry for the children in all of this because if their family life gets turned upside down then they'll suffer greatly of course.
I'm also sorry for your loss losing a loved one is hard but that doesn't justify your behavior and you have no right inflicting potential chaos and misery on an 'innocent' woman and two children.
I'm not sure what your question is because there isn't one, but I would encourage you to either leave this guy alone and cut off all lines of communication with him or give him an ultimatum between you and his girlfriend.
If you were to get him to separate from his girlfriend and were to become an item I would implore you to sleep with one eye open. If this piece of shit is willing to screw someone behind his pregnant girlfriend's back then you'd have to wonder what he'd do behind your back. Food for thought.0
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